No more Deny, Deny, Deny it is time to Educate, Educate, Educate
This book is a step by step illustration of how a child sexual abuser targets their victim, controls the victim and the destruction the abuse causes in the victims life. It is a series of personal experiences shared by a survivor of child sexual abuse. This is not a book written by an outsider. This book is written by a victim of long term child sexual abuse. In this book it is outlined firsthand how a pedophile gains total control of their victim and how the victim responds to the abuser’s manipulation. It shows what happens if an abuser’s friends and relatives don’t separate the common behaviors associated with sexual abuse from the person. If you can spot the sexual abuse then you can stop the sexual abuse. This book will help you broaden your knowledge base.
Introduction
Before I began my journey of healing from my abuse I often thought my amazing memory was a curse. Today I have to believe that God didn’t curse me with the ability to remember almost every detail of my years of sexual abuse. I have to believe this is a blessing, a gift to guide me to help others and not to just torture me. Since I have shared my story publicly I have seen the ignorance that exists around this topic. Both with professionals and nonprofessionals, I hear, “I have never met anyone personally with your experiences.” Well, you have but just don’t realize it. I told my therapist during one of our very first sessions that I would reveal my sexual abuse secret when I felt I could do more good than harm with the sharing of it. That time, I feel, is here.
This book is a step by step illustration of how a child sexual abuser targets their victim, controls the victim and the destruction the abuse causes in the victims life. It is a series of personal experiences shared by a survivor of child sexual abuse. This is not a book written by an outsider. This book is written by a victim of long term child sexual abuse. In this book it is outlined firsthand how a pedophile gains total control of their victim and how the victim responds to the abuser’s manipulation. It shows what happens if an abuser’s friends and relatives don’t separate the common behaviors associated with sexual abuse from the person. If you can spot the sexual abuse then you can stop the sexual abuse. This book will help you broaden your knowledge base.
Introduction
Before I began my journey of healing from my abuse I often thought my amazing memory was a curse. Today I have to believe that God didn’t curse me with the ability to remember almost every detail of my years of sexual abuse. I have to believe this is a blessing, a gift to guide me to help others and not to just torture me. Since I have shared my story publicly I have seen the ignorance that exists around this topic. Both with professionals and nonprofessionals, I hear, “I have never met anyone personally with your experiences.” Well, you have but just don’t realize it. I told my therapist during one of our very first sessions that I would reveal my sexual abuse secret when I felt I could do more good than harm with the sharing of it. That time, I feel, is here.